Why do married men cheat?

[PrincessB]

Why is it so difficult for married men not to cheat?
What causes them to be unfaithful?

I would like everyones view on this please

[temi]

WELL THATS A QUESTION THATS ALWAYS ON THE LIPS OF EVERY WOMAN DOES THAT KNOW WHY AND THOSE THAT DONT KNOW.FOR ME I THINK FOR SOME MEN ITS GREED AND FOR SOME THERE WIVES SEND THEM OUT(AS IN THERE BEHAVIOUR) AND FOR SOME FRIENDS.EACH EITHER WAY MEN SHOULD ALWAYS THINK TWICE COS THIS THINGS ALWAYS BACKFIRES NO MATER HOW LONG.EVEN IF ITS BECAUSE OF UR WOMAN DAT U CHEAT UR KIDS WILL DEFINATLY BEAR THE  BRUNT OF IT AT THE LONG RUN.WOMEN ALSO SHOULD BE CAREFUL IN THERE EVERY DAY LIFE WHEN IT COMES TO THERE HUSBAND.COS TO BE MRE CANDID AM A WOMAN BUT SOMETIME WHAT WE DO TO UR MEN SOME TIMES IS SO OUT OF IT.

[PrincessB]

I agree with you sometimes women cause their men to stray.
Some men are so good but the women are something else.
Too much disrespect, and women wanting to wear the trousers.

[chioma]

I dont beleive its fair to blame a woman for a mans unfaithful behaviour. Everyone is responsible for their own actions.
If a man has a troublesome wife, then the most responsible thing to do is terminate all relationships with one before startng with another.

[PrincessB]

I dont beleive its fair to blame a woman for a mans unfaithful behaviour. Everyone is responsible for their own actions.
If a man has a troublesome wife, then the most responsible thing to do is terminate all relationships with one before startng with another.

Chioma
nobody has blamed all women. PrincessB wrote.....I agree with you sometimes women cause their men to stray.

[tpoet]

I hope you all will reason on this issue...it is passionate ....that we should discuss this topic.

First and foremost it is he that is caught that is a thief...whether men cheat or not women equally cheat....if you havent it means you are exceptional and may fidelity continue to be on your side...if otherwise then we can look at issue well.

MEN....Our body sensuality and response are entirely different...a man can produce 266 kids in a month while a woman can produce only 1 in possible time within a year..
.... by nature men are always honey and ready while women will have to choose....i am not a woman and do not know how you all feel towards men...i certainly know that there is hardly a day man never thinks of woman or look at woman..
....if a women is in  any way -beautiful, or sexy, or attractive, or smell, or dress or look different you will suck the men into various wild thoughts and fantasies about you.. that is how we are made...it sticks out for us...and at any little trigger we are ready like the nurse with syringe.- to inject!
The  Nature of our body chemistry appart...women tend to always be more in any given population than men...there are always women who are contented with their men and there women who just can find a man so  single or free for whatever reason their passion calls- but like all good women faithful they desire equally what the other faithfuls women  get..and only the bad guy is there fro her...remember she always choose...and will compromise here.

and now with our ever unchanging chemistry men are ready to fill the vacum of nature...it is a looose end restless problem it could come in various way...a woman not having good hits per day from her man...or that ... lately... the man of her dream is here now...a bad man going out to look for a love vulnerable or lonely woman or vice versa...we all do something wrong but the men are known for it....different circumstances...until you expoerience it...u never can know...

because men  are less hideous about it.
sex is in the dark...rarely open we only infer it from extraneous proof...so let it be that a man can tell all his friend in a social gathering what he has done it with that girl...but a woman will hardly tell anyone whom she has done it with....lets all who read today beat their chest and say..if i havent cheated then cheating can stop.

[PrincessB]

ROFLOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL HAHAHA tpoet

I love listening to men's excuses for being naughty, and straying from
the marital bed.
You are right that men tend to talk about what they have done, and
even get praised for it. If a woman cheats, she is smeared for life.

But what about self control or saying no?

Your point about a woman being able to have a child once every 9 months
while a man can ferterlize 266 eggs a month is hilarious.

Which man really wants 266 babies a month?

Men need to start seeing women past the pretty clothes and sexy underwear.
We are intelligent, caring and nurturing. We need to be respected and loved
Men need to get past the whole idea of *it is possible to fertilise so many
eggs a month.

Making a woman pregnant comes with responsibilities. She is carrying your
future. Men should be planning how to take care of his family, while she is
pregnant rather than..seeking out the next fertile woman.
His role has changed from inseminator to Father/Daddy/Parent.

Have you ever heard of Look but don't touch?
Infact even the Bible warns us that as long a man has desired another woman
in his heart, he has committed adultery in his heart.

So really He that made man and woman has not made MAN to seek out
other women. He is to stick with his own wife.

[dugo]

U've said it all I guess from the guys who simply can't stick to one partner to their "chemistry"to the womans behaviour to self control and I think each view has it's merit.but I honestly believe that the path of  strong determination and self-control/discipline is the best one to tow in order to avoid cheating on ur wife.After all u are supposed to love her for better for worse in rudeness and humility,in periods of atrractiveness and obesity till death do u part never forget that!

[PrincessB]

U've said it all I guess from the guys who simply can't stick to one partner to their "chemistry"to the womans behaviour to self control and I think each view has it's merit.but I honestly believe that the path of  strong determination and self-control/discipline is the best one to tow in order to avoid cheating on ur wife.After all u are supposed to love her for better for worse in rudeness and humility,in periods of atrractiveness and obesity till death do u part never forget that!

I like your comments very much.
Marriage is not a bed of roses. There has to be give and take.
Most of the time you find people will not communicate with
their partner when something is wrong. They leave things
to fester,leaving the marriage to break down.

[miguel]

have a lot of men cheat the wife,girlfriend the person he have a relantionship is correct but is only him cheat all the time
or the woman dont cheat too me my self know womans are cheating  they partners why guilt only the man

[PrincessB]

I am not saying only men cheat.
We can post that question as another topic.
I wanted to know WHY or WHAT makes men cheat.